Stop Being a Control Freak
Stop Being a Control FreakAuthor: Amanda HarveyBeing a control freak means feeling the need to try and control everything and everyone around us. Most people, at least at some stages of their lives, experience the tendency to want to control life. The difference is in the degree of obsession that we feel about wanting and trying to control the various aspects of our lives. In the most extreme situations - true control freak territory, the need to control can completely dominate one’s life. If you are desperately afraid of losing control, being ‘out of control,’ or going with the flow is a terrifying and alien concept, your need for control could be controlling you! By trying too hard to control life, and refusing to let go of anything, we can create a terrible stressful and rigid life for ourselves.
It is exhausting to try and control everything around us, and it doesn’t allow for relaxation or spontaneity. It is also a certain way to create tension and frustration. The reality is that when it comes to life and change, we have very little control over what happens.
Trying to control things which are impossible to control can make us feel totally out of control and stressed out. Rather than being a control freak, a better way to live is to let go of that which is beyond our control, and put our energies into controlling what we can.
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