Child Discipline: 6 Tips Every Parent Must Implement
3) To Spank or Not To Spank: Let’s be clear about two things: First, in regards to spanking, there is no right or wrong answer - no black and white.The answer to this question is so different for every parent, and it may be ‘right’ for one parent and ‘wrong’ for another. And that is ok! Secondly, we must be clear about the difference between spanking and abuse. Softly spanking to simply let a child know they are in trouble and to teach them is certainly different than lashing out angrily in an abusive way. However, it is absolutely essential to ensure children undoubtedly know that if they choose to disobey, there will be consequences. Now, I have purposely chosen not to answer the actual question at hand – that is because the answer must come from you. For some parents’ style and circumstances, spanking may be ok so long as it never is abusive or done in anger. If, however, you choose not to spank, you also must ensure that there are appropriate consequences for every action, and to never be so soft that children manipulate and walk all over you. 4) Consequences Are a Result of the Child’s Actions: There once was a wise father who handed the keys of his car to his teenage son, before the son was to head out on a date with his girlfriend.
The father said: “here are my keys son. This car is yours until midnight. If it is back in the driveway at midnight, you essentially have chosen the reward of using my car again next weekend. However, if you choose to be home a minute late, you have also likewise chosen the consequence of never using my car again.” True story - and wise counsel.
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